Life is too short to allow people to come into your life and dictate your character. Whether it be family, friends, coworkers, or on social media, you should be cautious to involve yourself with other people’s thoughts on how you run your life. Don’t get me wrong, if you are doing something to harm yourself and others are trying to help you get better then that’s one thing. Trying to help you with no personal gain is a pure concern. It’s still up to you if you want to accept of course. But if there is someone that is just negatively trying to dictate your life then that’s a whole other subject. Those are the ones you need to avoid. Dealing with said individuals will cause nothing but grief and stress. Also, do not let them pull you out of your character trying to defend yourself against them. You would be fighting a losing battle. Plus this is the kind of thing they want you to do. At the end of it, you will be upset and they will feel good. This is not worth your peace. More than likely, these haters if you would, will not determine your next meal or if your bills are paid. So therefore the opinion is irrelevant. If you feel this from someone that you worse seen as a friend, especially if it’s constant, then it’s better to just cut your losses. Your overall peace of mind will always be worth it in the end.
Published by Keysha Sawyer
My name is Keysha. I'm in the medical professional and I'm a single mom of two wonderful children. I'm also a writer. In my 20's I was a poet. However, when my children were younger it was hard to write but now that they are teens it is time to get back to my passions which are writing and trying to help people. View all posts by Keysha Sawyer